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Old June 6th, 2010, 11:10 PM
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I would try the old school high school, "If you love me youll do it" that has gotten me soooooo many things lol, nothing really great lol but my wife is now almost completely open minded lol. Oh and if she uses the popular "If you loved me you wouldn't ask" just tell her thats a convenient excuse that only proves she doesn't love you lol.



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Old June 12th, 2010, 02:51 AM
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What I'd do, not mention it to her, not even bring smoking up in a sentence, do it about the same amount as you have been, let her know when you are doing it, but don't even mention to her about her trying it. Be as cool as you can about her not doing it, and eventually, she'll start smoking. That's just how it works.
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Old June 12th, 2010, 02:54 AM
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Get her drunk first. Everything is easier when you're drunk.
+1 Thats so true... Everythings easier when you're drunk
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Old June 13th, 2010, 02:05 PM
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this is for sure something she'll have to warm up to on her own, you could try giving her some literature on the culture of hookah and the relaxation/scoicalization aspect of the whole scene.
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Old June 13th, 2010, 02:10 PM
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She has never tried it? I know several people who were very "oh, I don't smoke" types, but when they tried it, they almost bankrupted me wanting to go to the hookah bar 4 or 5 nights a week. Give it time, she'll come around. and if not, maybe it can just be your little hobby. Just be glad she isn't pressuring you to quit based on her morals.
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Old June 13th, 2010, 02:32 PM
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Try threatening her family. Sometimes it works.
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Old June 13th, 2010, 02:52 PM
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Just tell her its really enjoyable and you'd love to smoke hookah with her and that she can pick any flavor she wants.
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Old June 13th, 2010, 03:26 PM
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I would simple tell her to never judge a book by it's cover. I know plenty of girls that HATE smoking but love hookah. Not much you can do except to tell her to try it before she knocks it. I know that when I find a new GF I want her to share my passion for hookah XD
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Old June 13th, 2010, 09:33 PM
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You just want to be careful that you're not making her feel like she's seriously changing who she is or her beliefs...that could create a slippery slope that's no good for the relationship. Let her know when you're doing it and offer to let her enjoy the company (no smoking required), then you can offer the hookah but don't force it.
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Old June 13th, 2010, 09:36 PM
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dump her and find a girl whose dth. (down to hookah)
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Old June 14th, 2010, 02:38 AM
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Thats one of the many reasons why i love my gf is that she likes to smoke hookah ") But yea man i suggest u let her come to her own decision without u forcing her smoke... Who knows curiosity may take over
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Old June 14th, 2010, 06:17 AM
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To sum up what people have said it'd be best to try and maybe make her more involved and make her feel like she's making her own choices if she gets to choose the flavour etc but if she doesn't want to do it all then she's not obliged to and you should respect her wishes more and not try and force her in to doing something she's clearly not comfortable with.

She can't be that closed minded if she doesn't object to you smoking hookah, so don't be so closed minded in return in thinking that she should smoke it.
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Old June 14th, 2010, 12:29 PM
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I'm kinda shocked that some people here have actively tried/offered advice to make people start smoking.
It's an unhealthy potentially addictive hobby that you're pushing, people should only start out of their own interest and choice.
Get her drunk, have an intimate moment, pretend the hookah pipe is your ========= and trick her into sucking it, lol.

Sorry that was in horrible taste but I could not resist.

My woman cracks me up because if I offer it to her, she will not smoke but when I have a social gathering and everyone is smoking, she is like a Dyson Vacuum cleaner with the hose. It is difficult to convincing someone to do something that is harmful to their body. Hookah is not for everyone and she will either try it or not but that decision is up to her, all you can do is be supportive of her choice.
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+1 ignited. While it would be totally awesome to share the hookah experience with her if she were open to it, trying to coerce, bribe, cajole, or otherwise "convince" her to do something that goes against her will, beliefs, or even personal choice wouldn't be a very good idea. If you accept her feelings on hookah and she accepts your feelings on hookah then who knows, maybe one day, without pressure, she may just ask you to let her try a puff just to see what it's all about but you're much better off letting her come to that point on her own without being harrangued (which I'm sure she'll view attempts to get her to smoke as) to do it. Best of luck, friend. Smoke happy.

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I totally agree, don't push her into anything it will just make things worse.
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Old June 14th, 2010, 10:04 PM
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I've just kindly offered to my GF and tell her from time to time that it isn't as bad as she thinks. She's slowly starting to try it.
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